from Father, with LOVE

dear, My Child,

You may not know me,
but I know everything about you.
Psalm 139:1

I know when you sit down and when you rise up.
Psalm 139:2

I am familiar with all your ways.
Psalm 139:3

Even the very hairs on your head are numbered.
Matthew 10:29-31

For you were made in my image.
Genesis 1:27

In me you live and move and have your being.
Acts 17:28

For you are my offspring.
Acts 17:28

I knew you even before you were conceived.
Jeremiah 1:4-5

I chose you when I planned creation.
Ephesians 1:11-12

You were not a mistake,
for all your days are written in my book.
Psalm 139:15-16

I determined the exact time of your birth
and where you would live.
Acts 17:26

You are fearfully and wonderfully made.
Psalm 139:14

I knit you together in your mother's womb.
Psalm 139:13

And brought you forth on the day you were born.
Psalm 71:6

I have been misrepresented
by those who don't know me.
John 8:41-44

I am not distant and angry,
but am the complete expression of love.
1 John 4:16

And it is my desire to lavish my love on you.
1 John 3:1

Simply because you are my child
and I am your Father.
1 John 3:1

I offer you more than your earthly father ever could.
Matthew 7:11

For I am the perfect father.
Matthew 5:48

Every good gift that you receive comes from my hand.
James 1:17

For I am your provider and I meet all your needs.
Matthew 6:31-33

My plan for your future has always been filled with hope.
Jeremiah 29:11

Because I love you with an everlasting love.
Jeremiah 31:3

My thoughts toward you are countless
as the sand on the seashore.
Psalms 139:17-18

And I rejoice over you with singing.
Zephaniah 3:17

I will never stop doing good to you.
Jeremiah 32:40

For you are my treasured possession.
Exodus 19:5

I desire to establish you
with all my heart and all my soul.
Jeremiah 32:41

And I want to show you great and marvelous things.
Jeremiah 33:3

If you seek me with all your heart,
you will find me.
Deuteronomy 4:29

Delight in me and I will give you
the desires of your heart.
Psalm 37:4

For it is I who gave you those desires.
Philippians 2:13

I am able to do more for you
than you could possibly imagine.
Ephesians 3:20

For I am your greatest encourager.
2 Thessalonians 2:16-17

I am also the Father who comforts you
in all your troubles.
2 Corinthians 1:3-4

When you are brokenhearted,
I am close to you.
Psalm 34:18

As a shepherd carries a lamb,
I have carried you close to my heart.
Isaiah 40:11

One day I will wipe away
every tear from your eyes.
Revelation 21:3-4

And I'll take away all the pain
you have suffered on this earth.
Revelation 21:3-4

I am your Father, and I love you
even as I love my son, Jesus.
John 17:23

For in Jesus, my love for you is revealed.
John 17:26

He is the exact representation of my being.
Hebrews 1:3

He came to demonstrate that I am for you,
not against you.
Romans 8:31

And to tell you that I am not counting your sins.
2 Corinthians 5:18-19

Jesus died so that you and I could be reconciled.
2 Corinthians 5:18-19

His death was the ultimate expression
of my love for you.
1 John 4:10

I gave up everything I loved
that I might gain your love.
Romans 8:31-32

If you receive the gift of my son Jesus,
you receive me.
1 John 2:23

And nothing will ever separate you
from my love again.
Romans 8:38-39

Come home and I'll throw the biggest party
heaven has ever seen.
Luke 15:7

I have always been Father,
and will always be Father.
Ephesians 3:14-15

My question is…
Will you be my child?
John 1:12-13

I am waiting for you.
Luke 15:11-32

28.01.10

U promised. Somehow, we'll find a way to make it works.....

P.S: I keep my faith

XOXO

There is always been one answer: YES

21/01/10
12 hours together
&
U'll be my hero



precious thing doesn't always come through a surprise or special way
it comes from your HEART

P.S: u r not a jerk because u do something that a jerk won't do ; LOVING

XOXO

PVTN forever!

P, T, & N are the best gift ever. once they said to me "if there's someone who leave u, just remember that we will never leave you FOR ANY REASON"

“Friends are those rare people who ask how you are and then wait to hear the answer”

“How lucky I am to have known someone who was so hard to say goodbye to”

"It is by chance we met . . .
By choice we became friends."

"A real friend is one who walks in when the rest of the world walks out."

P.S: I love my PTN

XOXO

JERKS!

berhadapan dengan PRIA BAJINGAN? coba dibaca ciri2na. semoga berguna. ENJOY!

1. Jerks are self-centered

   One of the big things a Jerk has going for him is that he really doesn’t care about other people. In fact, his focus is almost entirely on his own pleasures, thoughts, and feelings.

   Because of this, when he sees something he wants, he goes after it!

   When your average “nice guy” sees a hot girl, he might be intimidated. He wants her to like him. He wants approval from her. In short – he cares about what she thinks!

   But in addition to that, most guys care about what other’s think too! They worry about a girl rejecting them in front of other people, and what those people will think when they see it happen.

   Jerks do not have this problem. They couldn’t care less about what other people are thinking. The Jerk is only focused on getting what he wants.

   When you allow yourself to focus on your goals, and set aside fears of judgment from others, this gives you a great deal of focus, and as we all know, focus is KEY to achieving what we desire.

2. Jerks aren’t afraid to approach women

   The single, most important step in getting a woman is walking up to her and talking to her.

   So many guys just DON’T DO THIS. They are too shy, or too intimidated by the girl to do so. Instead, they hang back and just stare at her like a big dummy, wishing he could find the balls to meet her.

   Jerks don’t hesitate to approach a girl. They’re not worried about whether or not she’s going to like them, because THEY DON’T CARE.

   They’re thinking about how hot it’s going to be to make out with her. They’re thinking about how much fun it will be to get her in bed. The LAST thing on their mind is “fear of rejection.”

   To a Jerk, if a girl rejects him, there’s something wrong with HER, not him. Nice guys will say “Oh, I’m too ugly, she doesn’t like me.” Jerks will say “That bitch is a total lesbian.”

   Just the act of being able to approach a girl and start talking to her puts the Jerk at an advantage, because he’s interacting with the girl, and the “nice guy” isn’t. To the girl, the nice guy doesn’t exist!

   That’s why women typically have such low opinions of men, because it’s always the Jerks who are approaching the women while the shy guys sit off in the corner!

   Jerks realize it’s not the woman’s job to approach the guy. If you want something, you have to go after it.

   So if the Nice Guys were to start walking up and talking to women, they might be surprised to find most women WELCOME their company and really want to meet a good fella to treat them right!

3. Jerks don’t censor themselves

   Part of the reason Jerks come off as fun, interesting, or exciting is because they aren’t worried about offending anybody. They will talk about whatever, joke about whatever, and even broach “sensitive” topics of conversation without a blink of an eye.

   Too many “nice guys” hold back when they talk to a girl they like. They NEVER bring up sex. They don’t even joke about it. Heck, they don’t even display any sign they even LIKE the girl.

   Because of this, the Nice Guys become the Boring Guys.

   The Jerk will come along, make an off-color joke, tell the girl a racy story, and even MAKE FUN of the girl!

   He could care less if he offends somebody. To the Jerk, he’s just doing what comes naturally to him. Attitude like this is like a breath of fresh air to many women, because they mistake it as “confidence.”

   But the more they are around the Jerk, the more they realize it isn’t confidence at all – its just narcissism, and a complete lack of caring about others.

   A nice guy would do well to “loosen up” when first meeting a girl and not try and please her so much, just like the Jerk does. But in the long term, it’s okay to care about what a girl thinks and be on your best behavior. But do this ONLY after you’ve created an attraction with her.

4. Jerks are honest about what they want.

   When a Jerk approaches a woman, he makes no bones about what he’s after. He flirts with her, lusts after her, and tries to convince her to come home and have sex with him.

   The girl knows RIGHT AWAY what the Jerk wants, and after he’s made it clear, it is up to her to decide if she wants to give it to him.

   If not, the Jerk moves on and finds another girl. If so, then the Jerk takes her by the hand and drags her off.

   This type of honesty is actually appreciated by women. In contrast, you have the nice guys who try and fly under the radar by being an asexual “friend.” He hangs out, listens to the girl’s problems, tries to help her when she needs it, and then all of a sudden, he springs the fact on her that he’s deeply in love!

   And the girl FREAKS OUT.

   The reason for this is that the “nice guy,” in trying to not get rejected quickly by misrepresenting his intentions, has basically built a relationship with the girl based on LIES.

   And because of that, the girl has already pegged him as a “friend.”

   So when the guy wants to be ?more than friends,? the girl feels betrayed, because she?s become accustomed to thinking of him in a certain way, and now he?s demanding she look at him differently.

   (Not surprisingly, shortly after this happens, most girls even stop being ?friends? with the guy!)

   Nice guys should make their intentions clear from the start. Flirt with a girl. Let her know you like her and want to date her! If she rejects you, move on until you find a girl who likes what you have to offer.

   That’s what the Jerks do, and it works out great for them!

5. Jerks safeguard their self esteem

   All too often, getting rejected from one girl will send a “nice guy” down a spiral of depression. His self esteem will hit rock bottom, and he’ll get depressed and withdraw for the rest of the night.

   Jerks don’t suffer from this problem. They safeguard their self-esteem viciously, and don’t allow rejection to get them down.

   This is why Jerks are Jerks! Because they will completely IGNORE rejection, and even go so far as to put down and ridicule other people to make themselves feel more important than they are.

   This constant guarding of their self esteem allows them to keep pursuing their goals by not allowing them to fall into a funk of depression.

   And no matter how you cut it – a guy with high self esteem is always way more attractive to women than a depressed loser.

   For the average nice guy, it’s important not to take rejection personally. If a girl isn’t into you, it doesn’t mean you’re not attractive, or cool, or interesting – it just means that girl isn’t right for you!

   So you keep looking for one that is, and you don’t stop until you find her.

   Rejection can be a hard thing for anyone to deal with. But remember to keep a positive outlook. Instead of seeing it as “losing a girl,” think of it like “I just eliminated a girl who’d have wasted my time if I pursued her.”

   You don’t need to ridicule or bad mouth others to feel good about yourself like Jerks do, but you should protect your self esteem as viciously as possible, because that will keep you going.

jadi para wanita baik2, berhati-hatilah kepada tipe pria seperti itu. JANGAN MAU DIBEGOIN

P.S: BEWARE OF JERKS!

XOXO

LUCU

ternyata dtengah-tengah masalah yg bikin butek, ad juga hal lucu...
I'm so lucky coz I have super friends at school.
we LOVE lunch so much!! hehe (amanda said : we go to school for lunch!)

jadi waktu lunch sekolah g kan lama bgt tuh, nah kita jadi punya banyak waktu untu ngobrol abis makan siank. hehe. hari ini tiba2 natalia cerita kalo dy baru dapet entah msg ato e-mail ttg bahasa malay gt..nah trus dy tiba2 nanya..

" vid lu tau gak c bahasa malaysia pocong tuh apa?"
" apaan?" (tadinya g gak trtarik kirain jayus)
"SETAN BUNGKUS"
(diam)
(kri kri krik)
(diam)
" WAKAKAKAKAKAAAAAA"
g yang langsung ketawa gitu. abisna goblog aja dengerna... kalo nasi bungkus g sering denger...nah ini udah setan dibungkus pula..lagian namana setang bungkus, untung bukan setan gulung! wkwkwkwkwkwkwkw
g sama martha c yg ketawa aja dengerna...bego bgt sumpah...

OOOOH iya ada lagi..
jadi kemaren tuh, pas malem2 g kan laper. g nyemil kacang. kacangna sumpah enak bgt. kacang yg bukan rasa kacang gt. bentukna doank yg kaya kacang tp rasana kaya biskuit gt x ya, ato kaya gorengan gt dah pokokna. ENAK... nyokap g yang beli gt. biasa lah kalo ada makanan baru nyokap g suka ngumpetin gt biar gak cepet abis.. tp g tau dimana persembunyianna. JADI SAMA AJA BOHONG! lalalala

ya pokokna bgitulah bentukna. wwkwkwkwkwk.
tapi yang lucu yah tuh kacang gak cuma punya label merk, tapiiii....

ADA NAMA NYOKAP G! wkwkwkwkwkwk. kayana emak g udah tau gitu kalo g bakal makan, makana dinamain biar gak abis! hahaha. ternyata nyokap g pelit jg ye (sedikit mirip kaya g) wkwkw

P.S : saya senang tapi sedih

XOXO

So-Long my Best Boyfriends

So here we go again! SCHOOL TIME!
aaaaargh!
lots of homeworks coming and problems are getting worst each day. WT*

last holiday was great (did I said that before?). I spent my days with them( my best boyfriends). That time was really fun! we rarely spent much money for having fun. its like..having a smile in our lips is more than enough~ seeing each other laughing makes us feel the warm of friendship. we're like true best friends. No secret! they done things that other bestfriend would probably never do..

I remember when they went to the airport just to say byebye. its about 2 am! I remember almost everything! conference call. anything.

Unfortunately that will be memories as it would never be real again!
True! it was my fault. If only I didn't think too much and avoid them..I feel so stupid! SO STUPID! However I can't turn back the time... so-long my best boyfriends! I'm so sory for being very stupid, for not understanding u, for my egoistic! have a great life, guys. I'll keep our memories in my heart. I won't forget that once we have share our time together.

P.S: Gonna miss you guys!

semuanya udah teradi dan gak ada yang perlu disesali. sekarang tinggal bagaimana berusaha u/ jadi yang lebih baik.. If there is chance to fix everything, I will give my effort not to hurts u again!

XOXO

Man, u should read this!!

Man, u should aware of these things!

1. Be compassionate and understanding. Women like men who are compassionate and understanding and someone who genuinely cares. A woman wants to be able to say in her mind, "Oh what a good man." A woman wants a man to tell her often how important she is to him and as well as showing her that in his actions! Flowers, a gift, a card, for no reason, or even just a phone call or leaving a loving message on her voice mail while she is at work!!! All a little extra touch that tell her she matters. It's also important for a man to be confident in himself and have dignity. And to be both very loving and confident (not clingy and needy) is very attractive

2. Give her thoughtful gifts- women love surprises. Gifts don't always need to be expensive, but always from the heart. Gifts should never be about the "money". It's the thought involved and the reason behind it. It just shows you really care and she is the one you are thinking about.


3.Be polite and complimentary. Women like to hear "please", "I am sorry", "I promise" and "thank you." Also, ask her how her day is going. Tell her she is gorgeous, beautiful, pretty, and that she has lovely eyes. Just telling her she is wonderful often helps. Thank her for everything she does for you. In addition, recognize that there is more to her than the physical aspect.

4. Be a good listener. Have respect for her thoughts and opinions. Recognize her intelligence and strong points. Even if you don't agree with her, find good points from both perspective's. It's paramount to her knowing she is seen as a total person. Never cut her down, even if you are kidding. Find something unique about her that no one has ever told her about.

5. Be a good communicator. Listen to her, hear her out, and give eye contact to let her know you are giving full attention. Be interested in her. However, you also need to open up and tell her your thoughts, opinions, and problems, but wait until she is done telling you her thoughts. Do not interrupt. Help give ideas about possible solutions to problems, but praise her if she finds something other than what you suggest.

6. Look the woman straight in the eye when giving compliments.

7.If she gets annoyed or upset with something you did or did not do, apologize first. Explain later, if she asks for explanation. Speak gently and be sincere. Women are adept at reading sincerity. It's possible she will give up on the fight and forget about it.

8.Remember, she's a woman, and her thoughts about what she wants can change day by day. Don't get mad at her for it. Love her for it, because, hey, she's a woman, and you like that about her.

9.Always be respectful to her parents, they mean the world to her. If you don't respect the parents you should might as well say goodbye to her.

I'm searching this, not because I'm expecting a guy to do this kind of things for me. But actually someone has did this to me! all checked!

you know? he's (the new year guy) a romantic type of person..
he knew how to treat a woman (very well)
and...i was surprise because no one had ever done that to me!

well, today I went to EX..it was so fun..hehe
I probably want more times to spend my day with him.. XD
Tq for giving me such a big day!
XOXO

Little Talk About Him

So, this is about a guy..the "new year" guy..
He's like an angel that come after him
I'm not looking for perfection nor good looking guy..
but he's an exception (hehe) He just perfect...

he is~
someone who lend me shoulder when I cry
someone who stares deeply into my eyes
someone who always listen to my story (everything)
someone who hold my hands tight when I feel guilty


P.S : I HATE U, but I LOVE being around you =p

So-called best friends

"A friend is someone who understands your past, believes in your future, and accepts you just the way you are"

Hey, I have 3 angels in this world. We share LOVE and laugh in our life. Smile to see me happy and cry if I sad..They are the best gifts that God has created for me.. They are My P, T, & N

~P for Praisca~

This my P! She is the most cheerful girl among us!
hmmmm, Praisca itu temen g yang paling ceria..kalo deket dia pasti ketawa karena tingkahnya yang konyol! hahaha. Netral n gak suka ngegosip. Sayank Py. mwah!

~T for Talitha~

here is my Talitha. She is smart and wise.
Talitha orangnya paling enak kalo diajak curhat..pinter ngebaca orang ( bisa tau gt orang ini/itu gimana) jadi kalo ditanyain pendapat enak. orangna juga jujur. yang g liad, dy suka nyembunyiin perasaannya supaya gak ngerepotin orang lain..dy bisa aja seneng padahal lagi sedih..V love T. mwah!

~N for Nesya~

and this my 3rd angel, Nesya. She is the thinker.
Nesya yang paling pemikir diantara kita.. keliatanna kuat n galak, tp dalemnya gak sekuat keliatannya. Bisa dibilang sedikit perasa. Tp anaknya juga seru kok kalo diaja becanda n cerita. Sayank dan Cium dari V, Mwah!

dear, my BF, I wrote this because I'm so glad to have u in my life! I won't forget u all, coz I really love u. PVTN forever together.


"trully, great friends are hard to find, difficult to leave, and impossible to forget!"

-this is US-

-This is US- this is my wish for u: comfort on difficult days, smiles when sadness intrudes, rainbows to follow the clouds, laughter to kiss your lips, sunsets to warm your heart, hugs when spirits sag, beauty for your eyesto see, friendships to brighten your being, faith so that u can believe, confidence for hen you doubt, courage to know yourself, patience to accept the truth, and love to complete your life. friends forever.